By: Jason Jowers, MS, MFT
Social connection is an important part of a military teen’s integration into a community. Whether they are hanging out at the youth center or playing sports after school, it would not be uncommon for some relationships to become romantic. Romantic relationships between teenagers can be exciting, and at times, complicated: affecting things such as self-esteem, self-image, peer groups, and family relationships.
Teen dating relationships can become problematic if violence is taking place between romantic partners. Especially if the violence goes unnoticed or willfully hidden. Many teens are connected on social media, at school, and in peer groups, and like domestic violence, it is not as simple as breaking ties with a partner.
As professionals, you will work with parents, family members, and friends to navigate these necessary conversations with teens about dating violence. February is National Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month and there are lots of resources to support military families experiencing this issue.
Teendvmonth.org shares “Teen dating violence affects nearly 10% of all teenagers throughout the U.S.” Their site features how to recognize the signs of teen dating violence, with helpful strategies for young people, parents, and educators. They also have an ongoing blog series that covers topics such as stalking, harassment, setting boundaries, and suicide risks.
Love Is Respect is an organization leading the way in raising awareness about teen dating violence. They have info on dating, healthy relationships, personal safety, and supporting peers. You can reach one of their domestic violence advocates 24/7 by texting 22522 with the word “loveis” or by phone at 866.331.9474.
Recognizing risks and protective factors around problem behaviors is important to address the link between bullying and sexual violence – as well as teen dating violence.
The issue of teen dating violence impacts everyone. Not just teens, but their parents, teachers, friends, and communities as well. Together, we can raise awareness about teen dating violence and promote safe, healthy relationships.
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